How To Be A Showstopper

How to Be a Showstopper

Have you always wanted to know how to be a showstopper? Maybe you never even thought about it. To stand out from the crowd and get noticed takes a bit of skill. Ever wonder why some women have that special sparkle when they walk into a room? It doesn’t matter what age you are either. You can be 18 or 99 and still make a show stopping entrance. There are several ways to achieve this show stopping image and it is not just about beauty on the outside. It’s really all about how you carry yourself, your attitude and how you appear to others.

Confidence

Confidence is one of the most important qualities we can cultivate. Being confident makes you more successful in life, more influential and you will bring you happiness. A side note: be careful, woman that are confident also attract more men whether they like it or not.

Everyone has unique qualities and abilities. We all need to acknowledge our inner belief that we are worthy and enough. Always make self care your priority. Did you know the most confident woman take care of themselves immaculately? Physical and emotionally. Yet society perceives this as self absorbed or selfish. While this is not true, though traditional gender roles tend to expect woman to care for everybody around them. There is a lot of data that self-neglect from overinvolvement with others actually depletes self confidence. Woman usually put others needs first, before themselves. Sadly they can often suffer from depression and lower self esteem as a result.

To be more confident share your magical gifts with the world and do what you enjoy most of, take care of yourself and always try to look your best while doing it.

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5 Ways To Sparkle and Shine wherever you go

1. Live lively and be excited.

2. Make yourself and others laugh. If you can get someone to smile, you have made their day.

3. Practice being brilliant at something that makes you shine above the rest.

4. Help those in need

5. Show your true personality and be kind.

Embrace your special gift

Evaluate what you are good at. Start by asking friends what gifts they see within you, if you don’t already know. Gifts are like muscles the more you use them the bigger they get. Strengthen and grow your gift by practice and study.

Smile

Smile! Did you know when you smile your brain releases tiny molecules called neuropeptides to fight off stress? Not only does this make you feel good, everyone around you will be instantly drawn to you.

Wear a bright colored lipstick to showcase your smile and whiten your teeth. Try a blue based color such as cherry, raspberry or wine instead of coral which can bring out the yellow in your teeth.

Go ahead and get your teeth whitened. It is so easy to ask your dentist to whiten your teeth. Go in a few times a year to get that extra feel good teeth cleaning and whitening session.

Look your best

Looking your best means you are healthy, happy, and put together. You don’t have to look like an instagram model to look good and no one is perfect. Knowing how to look your very best can make anyone stand out. Emphasize your unique features, your personality, and your attitude.

There is no surprise that clothes can actually increase your level of confidence. When we are feeling good about how we look it dramatically boosts confidence. My motto is always dress to impress. If you want to be a showstopper, wear nice clothes, dress like you are a star!

Imagine you are at a job interview and you want to show them your very best version of yourself. Why not do this daily? When you are going to the grocery store, pretend you are going to run into your someone very special, your worst enemy, or an ex? How would you want to present yourself? Look your best and you will never have to worry about an embarrassing run in.

Find a great skincare routine and make it your daily and nightly ritual. Take care of your skin, it is the first thing people see. Try a high quality skincare with natural ingredients that actually works to fight fine lines and aging skin such as Luxica Skincare.

Invest in a new handbag. Your bag should be a beautiful, high quality statement piece. It should not be boring or outdated. Try a neutral color that goes with most of your outfits or a basic black.

Be the life of the party

Most importantly have fun and dont overthink the situation. Make self-care and your happiness the priority.

Talk to people you normally wouldn’t and have three topics of conversation ready about something interesting. Keep conversations fun and light.

Be the fun loving person everyone wants to be around. Compliment everyone and love yourself the way you are!

Hair

Cut your hair either shorter or grow it out longer. You want to always look fresh. Change it up just a little maybe adding a few highlights or going a shade lighter or darker. Ask a professional hairstylist what suits you best.

Great Shoes

Shoes are so important. They can make such a huge difference in your look. Always choose a shoe that compliments your outfit and is in style. Don’t wear out dated shoes. Make sure your shoes look clean and comfortable as well. No one can be a showstopper while limping around in uncomfortable shoes.

A nude heel goes with a ton of outfits. Invest in a good quality nude heel. Try something like this nude heel by Aquazzura if you want to make the splurge. There are many nude pumps that look great and are affordable like this pair by Steve Madden available on Amazon.

A black pump is always in style. You can’t go wrong here, this is the perfect pair available on Amazon. A white fashion sneaker is perfect for casual days and best of all is super comfortable. Last but definitely not least, every showstopper must have a pair of sparkling high heel shoes!

Perfume

Find your signature perfume. Choose an interesting sensual, feminine scent. This can say alot about your personality and create a magical aura around you that will get you noticed and make you unforgettable. Do not over power yourself with perfume though. Just a small amount goes along way here. Go ahead and apply just a dab to your neck and hair. Less is more.

If you enjoyed this post, have a look at my other post about self care.

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